I would guess, “mastering difficult conversation” doesn't sound exciting to you at all.
It’s definitely ⛔️ not something you wake up in the morning and tell yourself:
“Wow, I can’t wait to get out of bed and learn how to that.”
No, you would rather master the skill of black-belt, 🥷 ninja-like avoidance:
perfecting your talent for smiling, nodding, and quietly sitting them out until the storm passes… so you can finally feel relaxed and at ease again.
🙋♀️ And believe me, I get it. I felt the same dread all over in my body years ago when I just imagined to be in a difficult conversation with my boss at the time.
But yet, after years of ducking and skillfully hiding away from them, I reached a point where I understood very clearly:
#1️⃣: You can’t avoid them.
They are inevitable when you work with people. They show up in meetings, in coffee chats, in emails that land in your inbox. The more you try to hide - they quicker they will find you.
#2️⃣: If you can’t handle them, nothing will ever change.
Because avoiding difficult conversations is like putting everything you care about on hold.
You risk that boundaries will not be respected, that people will talk over you, that your point of you is not considered.
You risk if
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I would guess, “mastering difficult conversation” doesn't sound exciting to you at all.
It’s definitely ⛔️ not something you wake up in the morning and tell yourself:
“Wow, I can’t wait to get out of bed and learn how to that.”
No, you would rather master the skill of black-belt, 🥷 ninja-like avoidance:
perfecting your talent for smiling, nodding, and quietly sitting them out until the storm passes… so you can finally feel relaxed and at ease again.
🙋♀️ And believe me, I get it. I felt the same dread all over in my body years ago when I just imagined to be in a difficult conversation with my boss at the time.
But yet, after years of ducking and skillfully hiding away from them, I reached a point where I understood very clearly:
#1️⃣: You can’t avoid them.
They are inevitable when you work with people. They show up in meetings, in coffee chats, in emails that land in your inbox. The more you try to hide - they quicker they will find you.
#2️⃣: If you can’t handle them, nothing will ever change.
Because avoiding difficult conversations is like putting everything you care about on hold.
You risk that boundaries will not be respected, that people will talk over you, that your point of you is not considered.
You risk if you don’t learn this you won’t get the raise you want. You won’t get the support you need. Your ideas will keep getting pushed aside which keeps you stuck in being constantly overlooked, disappointed in yourself and feeling frustrated every single day.
❗️This is not about solving conflicts, you becoming a fighter who aggressively fights for their rights.
It’s about learning how to master conversations that are important to be held by you with others. Because the more you are capable of doing this the easier everything gets.
#3️⃣: Avoidance is your biggest energy eater.
Every time you sit out a difficult conversation, it’s like letting a slow leak stealing all of your energy. Because you start each morning already bracing yourself, scanning for “landmines” just to stay away from any slightest tension.
Instead of feeling excited and motivated for the day you feel heavy, tense and dreadful because you know you’ll spend all day hiding from and avoiding these difficult conversations.
🔥 This is WHY being able to handle difficult conversations is the #1 skill you will want to learn and it comes with solid benefits like:
🔥 Speaking up for yourself with a clear voice whenever a difficult conversation shows up in your daily life, specifically in your work.
🔥 Grow your courage: No longer holding back in meetings, no extra onto your already full plate, no quietly pushing yourself to the sideline - because you know how to say what you want to say.
🔥 Become more assertive: No more saying “It’s fine” when it is really not, no more fear of judgement, no more wearing a mask and not feeling like yourself. Learn the difference between assertiveness and aggressivity.
🔥Transform the concept of “difficult conversations”. Take yourself through the 4 levels of learning and take yourself to the top by mastering all the skills so that out of the sudden they become second nature to you.
So are you ready to step into that solid version of yourself? Becoming that person who stops holding back and who dares to have those challenging conversations?
Yes? Cool.
Because if you’ve read this far, then I’m pretty sure you are and that this workshop is exactly for you.
👉 So let’s do it. Grab your ticket and save your spot now.
And if you know a colleague or friend who also wants to build their courage and enjoys having fun doing it, then feel free to bring them along and share this page with them. Because learning together is even better.
🎟️ Early Bird offer is available until September 15th.
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